HOPING TO ADOPT A BABY? HERE'S OUR PROCESS!

Completing your application with Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado is the first step if you’re hoping to adopt a baby. Our agency offers, home studies, matching services, placement, and post-placement services. Providing the most accurate information on your application is essential in assisting our staff with the completion of your home study and in matching you with birth parents. Once your application is received and processed, you will be notified about which other documents will be required to complete your file.

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The home study process at Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado is progressive, non-judgmental, and cooperative. Our caseworkers are trained professionals who are compassionate and understanding, with numerous years of experience in working with prospective adoptive parents. Several of our caseworkers are themselves adoptive parents. It is our philosophy that the home study experience should be enjoyable, educational, and positive, along with assisting you in discovering the unique attributes you bring to parenting an adopted child.
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Adoptive Parent Training

As a client with Adoption and Surrogacy Choices, you are entitled to Adoption U’s, Adoptive Parent Training course. Adoption professionals from all over the U.S. review each step of the adoption process through short videos and interactive activities.

  • In short training sessions, learn the ins and outs for the most important steps of the adoption process
  • Learn at your own speed to best understand the material
  • Interactive training ensures you are armed with the knowledge you need
  • Quickly find adoption resources
  • Become Adoption U certified Adoptive Parents

From the home study to matching, hospital etiquette, post placement communication and more, we will cover a variety of topics so you are well equipped to become adoptive parents.

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Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado customizes the matching process. Prior to having your adoptive parent profile presented to birth parents, you will be able to review the possible match and ask questions. Then you can say yes or no to having your profile presented. The preferences and criteria information you have provided on your application will be used to present customized matches to you. Our agency is now offering additional marketing exposure and the ability to have your adoptive parent profile and video (optional) on six (6) different adoption/birth parent related websites. Services include customized profile coaching, video creation and editing, and electronic, mobile friendly versions of your profile. We strive to provide our families with the highest quality of customer service and our main goal is to help your match happen as quickly as possible.

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Post-placement supervision is required in every state in private adoption. It is the period of time between placement of a child you, and the time that your child’s adoption is finalized in court. Colorado regulations require post-placement contact at two weeks, three months, and six months after placement, along with monthly telephone/email contact. The purpose of post-placement supervision is to gather information about, among other things, your child’s health, attachment, and development as well as your adjustment to becoming parents. The final report will recommend that the adoption petition be granted and state that finalization will be in the best interest of the child. The number of post-placement visits required will vary, based on the regulations of the state in which your child was born. Should a child be placed in a state other than Colorado, Adoption and Surrogacy Choices will adhere to the regulations of that state and will provide visits and reports at more frequent intervals. (Additional fees may apply).

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Colorado Core Training Adoption

Location

2801 Youngfield Street, Suite 320, Golden, CO. 80401

Overview

The State of Colorado requires 16 hours of face-to face training for all families adopting domestically.

We require that this is completed prior to the placement of a child in your home. The cost of this classis $1250 per weekend and is scheduled with our office. The Agency offers these trainings once a month.

Included in this training are guest speakers and a newborn trainer.

2022/23 Training Dates Available

  • October 15th and 16th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • November 5th and 6th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • December 10th and 11th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Jan 14th and 15th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Feb 11th and 12th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Mar 11th and 12th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Apr 15th and 16th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • May 20th and 21st, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • June 10th and 11th, 9:00am – 5:00pm

Download 2022 CORE TRAINING Flyer

Download 2023 CORE TRAINING Flyer

Please contact us for more information and to reserve your spot in a class.

Application

Completing your application with Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado is the first step in getting you started on your adoption journey. Our agency offers, home studies, matching services, placement, and post-placement services. Providing the most accurate information on your application is essential in assisting our staff with the completion of your home study and in matching you with birth parents. Once your application is received and processed, you will be notified about which other documents will be required to complete your file.

Matching/Placement

Our agency will provided court approved living expenses for birth mothers who need the help. We can help with expenses such as rent, utilities, food, sundries, and your phone bill. We understand how difficult it is to get back on your feet and return to work after delivering a baby and we want to help you as much as possible. Depending on your State of residence, the amount of court approved expenses may vary.

Home Study

The home study process at Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado is progressive, non-judgmental, and cooperative. Our caseworkers are trained professionals who are compassionate and understanding, with numerous years of experience in working with prospective adoptive parents. Several of our caseworkers are themselves adoptive parents. It is our philosophy that the home study experience should be enjoyable, educational, and positive, along with assisting you in discovering the unique attributes you bring to parenting an adopted child.

We provide counseling to you as the birth mother, the birth father if he is interested as well as your family and other children. We want you to have a great support system and we believe that helping others around you understand adoption and what the future brings sets you up for success.

Adoptive Parent Training

As a client with Adoption and Surrogacy Choices, you are entitled to Adoption U’s, Adoptive Parent Training course. Adoption professionals from all over the U.S. review each step of the adoption process through short videos and interactive activities.

  • In short training sessions, learn the ins and outs for the most important steps of the adoption process
  • Learn at your own speed to best understand the material
  • Interactive training ensures you are armed with the knowledge you need
  • Quickly find adoption resources
  • Become Adoption U certified Adoptive Parents

From the home study to matching, hospital etiquette, post placement communication and more, we will cover a variety of topics so you are well equipped to become adoptive parents.

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Post Placement

Post-placement supervision is required in every state in private adoption. It is the period of time between placement of a child you, and the time that your child’s adoption is finalized in court. Colorado regulations require post-placement contact at two weeks, three months, and six months after placement, along with monthly telephone/email contact. The purpose of post-placement supervision is to gather information about, among other things, your child’s health, attachment, and development as well as your adjustment to becoming parents. The final report will recommend that the adoption petition be granted and state that finalization will be in the best interest of the child.

The number of post-placement visits required will vary, based on the regulations of the state in which your child was born. Should a child be placed in a state other than Colorado, Adoption and Surrogacy Choices will adhere to the regulations of that state and will provide visits and reports at more frequent intervals. (Additional fees may apply).

Core Training

Location

  2801 Youngfield Street, Suite 320, Golden, CO. 80401

Overview

The State of Colorado requires 16 hours of face-to face training for all families adopting domestically.

We require that this is completed prior to the placement of a child in your home. The cost of this class
is $1250 per weekend and is scheduled with our office. The Agency offers these trainings once a month.

Included in this training are guest speakers and a newborn trainer.

2022/2023 Training Dates Available

  • October 15th and 16th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • November 5th and 6th, 9:00am – 5:00pm

  • December 10th and 11th, 9:00am – 5:00pm

  • Jan 14th and 15th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Feb 11th and 12th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Mar 11th and 12th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • Apr 15th and 16th, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • May 20th and 21st, 9:00am – 5:00pm
  • June 10th and 11th, 9:00am – 5:00pm

Please contact us for more information and to reserve your spot in a class.

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How to Apply

Send in your application along with the proper fees. We will review your application and send you a letter informing you what documents are needed in order to complete your file.

HOW TO APPLY

Send in your application along with the proper fees. We will review your application and send you a letter informing you what documents are needed in order to complete your file.

COMMON QUESTIONS

What is the wait time before a baby is placed in our home?

The average wait time is 12-18 months depending on your preferences for your adoption. Depending on your openness to race, mental illness, and drug and alcohol exposure the wait time may vary.

Do you place with single parents?

We welcome single parents that are hoping to adopt. Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado doesn’t discriminate based on marital/partner status. Many times we find that birth parents are open to seeing profiles for single parents. We encourage birth parents to choose the best family for their baby including single parents.

Do you work LGBT applicants?

Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado has been proudly assisting lesbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgender (LGBT) families with the gift of adoption since we opened our doors in 2002. Our agency is honored that you have chosen to gather more information on us and our services.

The home study process and the application process is the same for all those applying with our agency. The LGBT applicants should present themselves, in their profile books, to birth parents just as any other applicants would. You should show birth parents that no matter your sexual orientation, the baby would be joining a loving, responsible family. Show your home, your family and friends, your hobbies and interests and do not be afraid to show your relationship with your significant other.

If you would like to see some statistics and research on LGBT adoptions, please go to: https://www.childwelfare.gov/systemwide/cultural/adoption/gay_lesbian.cfm

How long does it take to complete the home study?

On average, the home study takes two to three months to complete. You can speed up the process by gathering the required documents, scheduling your medical appointments, and completing your paperwork and fingerprint cards in a timely manner.

Do you provide home studies for couples working with out-of-state adoption agencies for placement, either domestically or internationally?

Adoption Choices of Colorado can provide only the services you need to comply with Colorado state laws. These services include the application process, the home study, the required adoption training, and post-placement or post-adoption services.

What are the levels of openness in adoption?

Open Adoption: In an Open Adoption, birth parents and adoptive parents are in direct contact with one another and share identifying information with each other. This type of adoption may involve the methods listed above in the semi-open adoption as well as in-person visits, without going through the Agency. The plan for openness is decided and agreed upon by both the birth parents and the adoptive parents. Open adoptions allow the child to connect more easily to his or her birth parents and to maintain a relationship. Keep in mind, the level of openness is always changing and shifting throughout the adoption and after placement; relationships change as time goes on. In Colorado, open adoption agreements are not enforceable by law but are encouraged for the best interest of the child.

Semi-Open Adoption: In a Semi-Open Adoption, birth parents and adoptive parents usually meet prior to the birth of the child, and the adoptive parents are often times present for the birth. After placement, communication, such as pictures, texting, phone calls, letters and emails, may occur. Last names and addresses of both parties are not disclosed, unless otherwise agreed upon by the birth parents and adoptive parents. This type of adoption allows for communication between the birth parents and adoptive parents while also maintaining some privacy. Keep in mind, the level of openness is always changing and shifting throughout the adoption and after placement; relationships change as time goes on.

Confidential (Closed) Adoption: In a Closed Adoption, there is no contact between birth parents and adoptive parents, with the exception of the birth parents’ non-identifying social/medical information that is provided to the adoptive parents. This type of adoption is rare in private adoption situations due to social media and the internet.

Private Adoption in Colorado and How It Can Benefit You

Private Adoption in Colorado and How It Can Benefit You

By Sylvie Christen

While you are researching how to put a child up for adoption, you likely will come up with many questions. You may encounter words and phrases that are unfamiliar to you, such as private adoption. Perhaps you are wondering, does private adoption mean my identity is confidential? Is private adoption the best choice for my child? Here we will provide the answer to those questions and more. 

No matter where you are in your adoption journey, Adoption Choices of Colorado can help! We are your local, licensed agency experienced in providing care to birth mothers and families. With us, you will never be alone. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

What Is Private Adoption? 

Generally, private adoption is the type you likely have been researching! It is when an adoption agency works to match an adoptive family or couple to a child. A birth mother, who is usually pregnant or has just given birth, chooses to place a baby for adoption with the agency. You may see this also referred to as domestic adoption, newborn adoption, or infant adoption. 

However, a common misconception is that private adoption means the birth mother’s identity is kept confidential. This is sometimes the case, but not always. When the adoptive family does not learn the birth mother’s identity, it is called closed adoption, and we will discuss this next. 

Private adoption is a common choice because it does not involve state agencies like CPS and DCFS. Instead of a child being removed from a home, a mother voluntarily gives her baby up for adoption at birth. 

Levels of Openness in Adoption 

There are three main types of private adoption in Colorado, sometimes called levels of openness. Closed adoption means the adoptive family does not learn the birth mother’s identity or any information about her. The birth mother will not have contact with the child after finalizing the adoption. 

You also have the right to an open or semi-open adoption. In an open adoption, you are able to stay active in your child’s life. You may visit the adoptive family before finalizing the adoption. 

Lastly, semi-open adoption is halfway between the two. You can still meet and select an adoptive family or adoptive parents. However, an adoption agency may organize the contact you have. 

How To Choose a Private Adoption

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy, private adoption may be the right choice for you. There is nothing to be ashamed of when choosing a better life for your child. Many women place their babies for adoption because they do not feel ready to parent. No matter your circumstances, we will never judge or pressure you. 

The first step is to contact an agency like Adoption Choices of Colorado. Our years of experience and compassionate staff make us the right choice to guide you through your pregnancy. 

Our adoption specialists will help you in creating an adoption plan. This simply is a document or list of how you would like the adoption to look. It can include your desires for an adoptive family, your financial needs, and your labor/delivery plan, as a few examples. You should make sure to have a comprehensive outline of your needs so our adoption staff knows how to best support you. 

Birth Mother Benefits of a Private Adoption

When you choose private adoption as a birth mother, you are in full control of the adoption process. You are in charge of the decisions regarding your baby and your pregnancy. 

One of the most important decisions you make will be selecting an adoptive family. Adoption Choices of Colorado serves many families and couples hoping to adopt. 

Also, private agencies such as our Colorado Springs adoption agency are licensed to provide financial assistance to birth mothers. There is no fee or cost for birth mothers to place a child for adoption. You may be eligible to receive assistance for medical care, travel, and other related expenses. 

You are also able to choose the level of openness, as explained earlier. Openness in a private adoption is up to the birth mother to decide, and it may change over time. Remember, just because the adoption is private does not mean it is confidential. 

Make The Most of Your Pregnancy with Adoption Choices of Colorado

Your local adoption agency is prepared to assist you through adoption in Colorado Springs or anywhere in the state. If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

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MotherWise supports women, children, and their families during pregnancy and after a baby is born. Their workshops focus on communicating, solving family problems, and proven information on caring for and connecting with a newborn. You’ll also receive one-on-one coaching to navigate work, life, family, and your new baby. They welcome all people who are pregnant or recently gave birth, regardless of whether they identify as a woman or as a mother.

Benefits of Creating an Adoption Plan in Colorado

Benefits of Creating an Adoption Plan in Colorado

By Jessica Exstrom

Finding out you are pregnant can be wonderful, but it can also be stressful. Your world is changed in an instant, and many decisions need to be made. One of those important decisions is the consideration of adoption. The choice is yours, and we can help you. Creating an adoption plan with us, Adoption Choices of Colorado, can make your adoption experience worthwhile and personal. Creating a plan with us in Colorado, including Colorado Springs, involves ensuring your decision, having access to various resources, like financial assistance, and learning the laws surrounding the adoption process

It’s important to know you aren’t giving up when you give up your baby for adoption. Instead, we like to keep in mind that you are creating an opportunity for yourself and your baby. You have experienced a lot, so let us help you in making the best decisions and adoption plans for you and your baby.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Benefits of Creating an Adoption Plan

Adoption is Permanent

Creating an adoption plan and learning how to put your baby up for adoption is one of the first steps in the adoption process, but ensuring you want to pursue adoption is the very first. It is not bad to place your baby for adoption if you know your baby needs more than you are able to provide at the time. Choosing adoption for your baby does not mean that you are giving up on your child; It means that you are allowing them the opportunity for better care. Whether you are in Colorado Springs or another location in Colorado, we can provide the steps to making a good adoption plan

Although placing your baby for adoption can be a great thing, you need to make sure that that is what you want and what is best for your baby. Having a licensed agent who fully understands the process and is there to support you will help you make the best decisions. Adoption is permanent, and with our help, we can allow you the opportunity to have confidence and comfort in all of the choices you make. Whether it is deciding months in advance or choosing adoption right at birth, there are resources and people available to help you.

Assistance During Your Unplanned Pregnancy

Private adoption in Colorado means that you are offered quality, personalized care for you and your baby. Walking through this sometimes challenging process with a professional, and having access to helpful services, can be helpful when planning your adoption. Adoption Choices of Colorado provides these things, like private adoption services and financial assistance. An unplanned pregnancy can be difficult to navigate through financially, and we understand that. Financial assistance can allow you time to process what you’re going through and create a quality adoption plan.

Specifically, we offer financial assistance in the following: 

  • Transportation
  • Medical Care
  • Housing
  • Utilities
  • Food
  • Phone Bill

Expenses are stressful and can quickly add up when you have more pressing matters, like an unplanned pregnancy, on your plate. Adoption Choices of Colorado offers assistance to help you through these difficult financial times. With these services, you can focus on the important matters of creating the best adoption plan for you and your child. 

Colorado Adoption Laws

Laws often seem confusing and complicated, so let’s break down Colorado adoption laws to make them simpler. Colorado adoption laws are very welcoming and inclusive to all types of potential parents who want to place their baby for adoption. There are limited restrictions and requirements involved.

First, for adoption in Colorado, the birth mother is not paid for placing their baby for adoption. As previously mentioned, though, financial assistance is available. There is no timeline for when to place your child for adoption. At any age and stage in your pregnancy, adoption is always a choice, including at the last minute and after the baby is born. Further, there are no specific requirements for placing a child for adoption in Colorado, meaning anyone and everyone is welcome to pursue this path.

You are Not Alone in Your Adoption

You are not alone in your pregnancy. Whether you just found out you’re pregnant or you’ve already given birth, Adoption Choices of Colorado provides the resources to make your decision, financial assistance throughout your pregnancy, and knowledge of the laws surrounding your adoption plan. With locations throughout Colorado, including Colorado Springs, we are just a drive away from helping you make a quality adoption plan for you and your baby. 

Remember, you are not giving up anyone or anything in deciding to place your baby for adoption; You are creating an opportunity for both you and your baby.

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Introduction to Adoption Planning for Birth Mothers

Introduction to Adoption Planning for Birth Mothers

By Sylvie Christen

Is a Colorado adoption right for you? If you have found this page, the answer might be yes. On the other hand, maybe you are experiencing an unexpected or unplanned pregnancy. Either way, you are taking a brave step by admitting you are not ready to parent. 

The idea of giving a baby up for adoption at birth may sound daunting, but it does not have to be! Working with a licensed, trusted agency such as Adoption Choices of Colorado will make certain that you are satisfied with the decisions you make.   

Here, we will be answering a few questions you may have about beginning the adoption process. We will be outlining what an adoption plan is and how making a plan can benefit you as a birth mother. While every birth mother is different, learning more about the process will help you decide if adoption is the right choice. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

What Is an Adoption Plan? 

An adoption plan is simply an outline of what you want your adoption to look like. After you decide to move forward with choosing adoption, it is important to create a detailed plan. It will help your adoption specialist know exactly how to best help and support you. Putting your adoption plan in writing is a good way to keep your needs in mind throughout the process.

Your plan might include things like your wishes for an adoptive family, your financial needs, and your level of openness. If you choose open or semi-open adoption, you will be able to select an adoptive family and even meet with them. You can also decide what your hospital stay will look like and outline your needs for post-placement support. 

If you do not know exactly what you want for your adoption, that is okay! Your adoption specialist will help you decide what is best for you based on your individual needs and circumstances. 

In short, an adoption plan is crucial for successful adoption, but no pressure! Your adoption specialist will help ensure your private Colorado adoption is a beneficial experience for everyone involved. 

How Do I Place My Child for Adoption? 

The first step to place a baby for adoption in Colorado is to contact us. Adoption Choices of Colorado is your local adoption agency available to call, text, or visit. Or, we can come to you anywhere in the state! 

Our adoption specialists are prepared to meet with you and discuss creating an adoption plan. An adoption specialist is one of our staff members trained in advocating for and supporting birth mothers. 

Is Adoption in Colorado Hard? 

In short, yes. Adoption is a long legal process that requires a lot of important decisions. 

With a newborn adoption, you may experience feelings of loss, sadness, and regret. This is a completely normal and understandable part of the process. Your adoption specialist will be there for you to listen and offer resources. 

However, adoption does not have to be a negative experience! We understand that an unplanned pregnancy can be a hardship. This is why we are committed to easing your burden and helping make adoption a positive experience for everyone involved. It will be worthwhile! 

Who Can Help Me During the Adoption Process? 

Your adoption specialist will be available to you at all times. They are experts who can explain any aspect of the adoption process to you, from legal terms to how to choose an adoptive family. Even if you are unsure now of how to put up a child for adoption, your adoption specialist can help. They even can accompany you to the hospital while you are giving birth. 

We offer post-placement support groups for birth mothers, and individual counseling is available to you at any point. Our services are available at no cost to you, and private adoption is always free. Adoption Choices of Colorado also provides financial assistance and can help with a safe place to stay during your pregnancy.  

Contact us now to learn more about how we can help with your Colorado Springs adoption! 

Learn More About Private Adoption in Colorado

You have found the agency best experienced in adoption in Colorado Springs and all over the state! Remember that you are making a brave decision for yourself and your child by choosing adoption. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Making an adoption plan in Colorado

Making an adoption plan in Colorado

By Jessica Exstrom

Deciding to place your baby for adoption is a difficult choice for any new mother. With this decision comes figuring out how to put your baby up for adoption and actually creating that adoption plan. Creating a plan can be complicated and feel overwhelming, but there is a lot of assistance offered to help you through the adoption process. With our services in Colorado, we can aid you in the process of planning an adoption gracefully, helping you make the best decisions for you and your baby. Let’s walk through the process of placing your baby for adoption in Colorado with Adoption Choices of Colorado by your side. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to help

The most important thing to remember when planning an adoption is: you are not alone. Adoption Choices of Colorado are the adoption agencies in Colorado here to help you put your best foot forward in the adoption process, and we will support you every step of the way. We also stress the idea that you are not giving up on anything or anyone when you “give up” your baby for adoption; You are giving a chance at a controlled and planned life for you and your baby.

With support in various cities in Colorado, including adoption agencies in Denver, we offer the convenience of multiple locations. Us and these locations offer private adoption, an option many new pregnant people don’t often realize. Through your private adoption in Colorado with us, you are offered the opportunity to participate in selecting and setting up a post-birth contact plan, like having a closed or open adoption. These opportunities allow you to still be involved in planning your baby’s future, helping both of you in the best way possible.

Creating a great adoption plan for you and your baby

An unplanned pregnancy often creates a lot of chaos in a person’s life, but we are here to help you every step of the way. Whether it is considering adoption at the beginning of your pregnancy or giving up your baby for adoption at birth, we can accommodate all of your needs. Figuring out what steps and what order to go in for creating an adoption plan can be complicated, but we have strategically planned out the steps for you and your baby. With these planned steps and multiple services of support, Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to help you create an adoption plan.

Here are the three steps in our adoption plan for you:

  • Reach out to us and/or schedule a first meeting
  • Allow us to help you with care, finances, adoption selection, and choosing a family
  • Feel at ease and happy with the decisions you have made with our help

Through these attainable steps, Adoption Choices of Colorado can help you create the plan that you want, under your terms, and that is in the best interest of you and your baby’s lives. These steps, paired with our types of support, can help you create your adoption plan.

Support we offer in the adoption process

Not only does Adoption Choices of Colorado offer you multiple agency locations, a thought-out adoption plan, and detailed steps, but we also provide additional services. Learning how to place your baby for adoption is very difficult, and we understand that, so we have created different services to support you through the entire process of placing your baby for adoption.

First, we offer ongoing support throughout your pregnancy. Before, during, and after, we will help you with various types of care. Second, we can provide 24/7 counseling. This counseling is specifically for during pregnancy and during the adoption process. Last, care is provided during pregnancy, along with financial assistance. Prenatal care, care that is specifically for expectant mothers to maintain a healthy pregnancy is a way for us to support you in your journey. Expenses are also often difficult during pregnancy, so we can help you find financial assistance for medical expenses. All of the support we offer is in an effort to provide you with quality care during your pregnancy and a smooth experience from start to finish.

An adoption plan will only benefit you

No matter your age, experience with pregnancy, or adoption knowledge, our goal is to make your pregnancy and adoption plan simple and attainable. With detailed steps, multiple areas of support, and convenient locations in Colorado, Adoption Choices of Colorado will help you have a great experience planning your baby’s future. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Adoption Resources Available at Adoption Choices of Colorado

Adoption Resources Available at Adoption Choices of Colorado

By Rose O’Connor

The decision to choose adoption is not an easy process to go through as a birth mother. When you are placing your baby for adoption, you may feel scared and alone. You may be researching how to put a child up for adoption. That is why Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to let you know how important it is for you to stay healthy and well taken care of. Therefore, we are here to support you through your journey. We will offer you all of the possible resources to help you with your adoption journey. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Adoption Resources that are Offered by a Private Agency 

Choosing an adoption agency in Denver can help you with your journey through the many resources offered. With that, these are some of the main resources that can benefit you in your journey. 

There is Main Counseling Support for Choosing Adoption

We provide counseling to you as a birth mother who chooses adoption. We want to make sure that you have a good support system for you and your child. 

Financial Assistance When Choosing the Adoption

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we will provide living expenses (court-approved) if you need assistance. We can help with expenses, such as rent, utilities, food, and your phone bill. The amount of court-approved expenses may vary, depending on your state’s residence. We will also guide you to find assistance in paying the medical expenses resulting from your pregnancy and delivery. If the portion of your medical expenses is not covered by state funding or private insurance, it will be provided by the adoptive family. Additionally, your worker is there to assist you with finding and scheduling prenatal appointments. 

Housing and Transportation When Choosing Adoption

Adoption Choices of Colorado will help you with transportation to your necessary needs. If you need further assistance, such as trips to the grocery store or a ride to work, your worker can help arrange that for you or provide a bus pass if you choose to do that. Moreover, we can assist you in finding or applying for housing, as well as help with paying your rent during your pregnancy and up to four to six weeks after your delivery date. 

We Offer Post-Placement Support for Choosing Adoption as Well 

You may be feeling overwhelmed and sad post-placement, especially when you give a baby up for adoption at birth. That is why Adoption Choices of Colorado provides support even after the journey. We want you to have a great support system. 

How will these Resources be used Before, During, and After the Adoption Process? 

These resources will be provided when you are going through the steps of the adoption process. Here are the main steps of the adoption process and how these resources will be imported. 

Step 1: Contact Adoption Choices of Colorado

You can call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Step 2: Schedule an initial meeting with Adoption Choices of Colorado

This is one of the resources that is provided, which is supported throughout the process. Meeting with an adoption specialist will benefit you. The task includes going over your specific needs. You will complete the paperwork and begin developing your adoption plan. We want to make sure we understand your comfort with the adoption options. We can meet in a setting that is comfortable for you. 

Step 3. Prenatal care, Financial Assistance, and Selecting the Type of Adoption.

This is where you can think about our resource of financial assistance! We want to make sure you are comfortable with your decision to choose adoption. Our private adoption Colorado agency will provide court-approved living expenses if you need them. You will also be selecting the type of adoption: open adoption, semi-open or closed. 

Step 4. Choosing an Adoptive Family with Adoption Choices of Colorado

Your adoption specialist will help you find the best adoptive family for your child. We will make sure the families that are being reviewed will provide a loving and nurturing home for your child. Therefore, we will bring you family profiles to review. All of the families are carefully screened and interviewed so that the process will be easier for you. 

Step 5. Pregnancy, Birth, and Hospital Plan

With this step, you can use the resources of housing and transportation. But first, A hospital plan can outline your whole hospital stay. This includes who you want with you during delivery. Creating this outline beforehand can benefit your delivery process. It can help organize and narrow down your needs. The resources of housing and transportation can still be used at any step of the adoption process. But during your hospital planning stage, it can be beneficial if you need a place to stay while going through later steps. 

Step 6. Post-Placement Support from Adoption Choices of Colorado

With this step, you can use our provided resources for Post-Placement Counseling. The Post Adoption journey can be emotional and overwhelming. That is why we offer this support to ensure that you are taken care of. We will provide all of the necessary needs for you and your child. 

You are not Alone in your Adoption Journey

Facing an unplanned pregnancy can be scary and overwhelming. You may be searching on how to put a child up for adoption. We are here to tell you that you are not alone and that we are here to support you. Adoption Choices of Colorado will provide you with all of the necessary resources for you and your child. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

What is Private Adoption, and What are the Benefits? 

What is Private Adoption, and What are the Benefits? 

By Rose O’Connor

Going through the adoption process can be overwhelming from the amount of information that is being placed. You may have thoughts that involve how you are going to get through this or if this decision is the best choice for you. You may be wondering how to put a child up for adoption. That is a lot to handle on top of an unplanned pregnancy and other decisions. All adoption agencies and other adoption sources are not the same, which is why it can be more overwhelming to make the decision. Additionally, that’s why finding the right agency can reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed.

Finding an experienced, licensed, and informative agency like Adoption Choices of Colorado can provide you with all the resources when giving a baby up for adoption at birth. Our goal is to make the adoption process easier for you and to take it to step by step. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

What is a Private Adoption in Colorado? 

Overall, there are three main types of adoption: Foster care adoption, International adoption, and Private (domestic) adoption. Additionally, private adoption may also be called “domestic adoption” or “infant adoption.”

Throughout the process of private adoption in Colorado, the adoptive parents work with a private adoption agency to adopt a baby that is within the U.S. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a full-licensed, full-serviced, and nonprofit private adoption agency. On the other side of this process, a birth mother makes the decision to create an adoption plan for her baby. 

Understanding the Difference between Private and Public Adoption

Private adoptions are done through the choice of the birth parent (who has chosen voluntarily) and are processed through a licensed Adoption agency. This will allow you the choice of the type of adoption and adoptive family you want to place your baby with. You can also work with agencies, such as the adoption agency Denver, that will match your needs for you and your child. 

Through public adoptions, foster care, and international adoption, children are mostly waiting for families due to causes that are outside the mother’s control. This type of adoption does not allow the same freedom of choice when creating an adoption plan. Since it is state-funded, it usually results in the child being taken by child services.

Benefits of Private Adoption 

Private adoptions have the bonus of getting extra support choices from your agency. Adoption Choices of Colorado has an experienced and knowledgeable staff that will assist you and find the additional resources you need throughout your adoption journey. Adoption Choices of Colorado will also handle the legal factors throughout the process. Therefore, you don’t have to worry about not knowing a lot about the adoption laws when placing your baby for adoption

Some of the main benefits are medical care, financial compensation, or counseling. Additionally, Birth parents will also be able to choose from our carefully selective adoptive families that our agency already screens. This will make the process easier for you, knowing that your child will be placed with a loving and nurturing adoptive family. Knowing the differences between private and public adoption, here are the expansion of the benefits of private adoption.

Colorado Adoption can Help with Financial Assistance 

Our agency will provide you with living expenses that are court approved if you need the help. We can help with other necessary expenses, such as your phone bill, food, and utilities. We understand how difficult it may be after delivering your baby, and we want to help you as much as possible! Overall, it is important to note that the amount of court-approved expenses may vary. This depends on your State of residence. 

Colorado Adoption can Assist you in Medical Care

We will assist you in finding ways of paying the medical expenses that are a result of your pregnancy journey and the delivery of your baby. The portion of your medical expenses that are not covered by state funding or private insurance will be given by the adoptive family. Your specialist is available to assist you with finding and scheduling prenatal appointments. If you are interested, we will include a setup for a hospital tour.

A Lamaze/Birthing Education Coach is also available to you through our agency. She will do private classes that are available to you that will help you feel comfortable. This will also have you ready for delivery.

Adoption Counseling will be Provided 

Choosing adoption is not an easy decision, and it can be scary going through the process. When you are placing your baby for adoption, it feels like a difficult decision to make. That is why Adoption Choices of Colorado will be there to provide support, including additional assistance such as counseling. We understand how important it is to be well taken care of and for you to stay healthy, especially if you are giving your baby up for adoption at birth.

Our adoption specialists are here to help you through your adoption plan. We want to further assist you in making a plan that is customized for you and your needs. Counseling and legal representation are given to you at no cost. We also have many additional resources to help you during and after the placement of your baby. 

A Message for Birth Mothers who are Choosing Adoption 

You are not alone in your journey. When you are wondering how to put a child up for adoption, it can be overwhelming with the steps. An unplanned pregnancy can be scary and emotional. That is why Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to support you every step of the way. Choosing private adoption will help you receive the benefits. This will ensure that your journey is easier for you when you are placing your baby for adoption

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

All About Adoption Plan and Adoption Process in Colorado

All About Adoption Plan and Adoption Process in Colorado

By Xihan Sun

It can be confusing when beginner birth mothers are looking for information about pursuing adoption in Colorado. This is because birth mothers can digest many different terms and concepts. It is undoubtedly hard for birth mothers to learn adoption terms while caring for themselves physically and mentally. Adoption Choices of Colorado wants birth mothers to be able to concentrate on their pregnancies and wellness. The Adoption plan and adoption process are two important concepts, and we are here to introduce them to you.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Adoption Process Birth Mothers Need to Go Through in Colorado

The term adoption process is quite self-explanatory. There are several steps that birth mothers need to go through to complete their adoption journey. These steps include crucial decisions you make for yourself and your child. It is important to notice that Adoption Choices of Colorado will stand with you throughout your adoption process. Here are some of the major steps that you will complete during and after your pregnancy. 

1. Contact Local Adoption Agency to Assist You With Your Adoption

Once you discover your unplanned pregnancy, you need to start considering your options. Adoption is a great choice for you if you are not ready to raise your child. Feel free to contact Adoption Choices of Colorado to support you at any time. You should always remember that giving a baby up for adoption at birth is an option. 

2. Start Creating a Customized Adoption Plan With Your Adoption Counselor

Your adoption plan will be the go-to reference throughout your adoption. There are many important decisions you will make for yourself and your child. It is okay if you do not know how to make an adoption plan. Our counselors will assist you in making one that is right for your situation.

3. Select the Level of Communication You Want With Your Child

One critical choice you will make is how much communication you want with your child and the adoptive family. Keep in mind that you should solely consider your own preference because every birth mother is different. There are three types of adoption: open adoption, semi-closed adoption, and closed adoption. Your counselor will help you to digest these concepts and provide suggestions based on your background.

4. Confirm the Medical Care For You and the Hospital to Take Care of You

Your wellness and health are our priority, so we want to provide the best medical services available for you. You can discuss the medical services you will need with your counselor. 

5. Interview and Choose the Adoptive Family For Your Child

We understand the importance of selecting the right adoptive family for your child. You want a family that can provide your child with the life you want for him/her. Adoption Choices of Colorado carefully screens candidates, and we will present you with the most appropriate candidate for you. You can learn more about the matching process on our website. 

6. Take Care of Yourself Physically and Mentally

Your physical health and mental state are the most important matters throughout your pregnancy. Therefore, we have various services to accommodate the different demands of birth mothers. Placing your baby for adoption is not easy, and we want to make you feel comfortable throughout this journey.

7. Deliver Your Child and Sign the Relinquishment Document

It is time to deliver your child and complete your adoption plan! You transfer your parental right to the agency, and your agency will transfer it to the adoptive parents. 

8. Deal With Any Post-Adoption Grief and Proceed With Your Life

It is understandable to grieve and have negative emotions after adoption. Choosing adoption is a personal decision, and we assure you that it is worth it. Adoption Choices of Colorado has professional therapy services for birth mothers experiencing post-adoption grief. 

Making an Adoption Plan That is Right For You

While an adoption plan has some similarities with the adoption process, there are significant differences between these concepts. In general, your adoption plan will not only include your tasks but also include the benefits you will receive.

The adoption process is the general step that birth mothers go through. On the other hand, an adoption plan is more personal to you based on your situation. An adoption plan is an important benefit of choosing private adoption because you will have more rights and initiatives. 

You will receive assistance from your adoption counselor when making your adoption plan. It is important to explain your needs to your counselor because it helps him/her to better understand your needs. Your adoption plan is personal to you, and you should make the best use by communicating with your counselor. 

If You Are Confused About How to Put a Child Up For Adoption

Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy is an overwhelming experience if you are a first-time birth mother. It is okay if you do not know how to put a child up for adoption. There are many private adoption agencies in Colorado that help birth mothers with their adoption process. We know how hard pregnancy can be for birth mothers, and we want to give you a hand. Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to assist you with your adoption plan, and we go above and beyond. If you want an adoption agency in DenverAdoption Choices of Colorado is a great choice for you. We will treat you with respect and provide our diverse resources and services for you.

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Planning an Adoption at 6 Months Pregnant

Planning an Adoption at 6 Months Pregnant

By Syd Sukalski

An unplanned pregnancy can cause stress and make you feel out of control. Maybe you’re undecided about what you want to do about your pregnancy, or possibly you’re considering adoption already. Getting started on the adoption process early on can help you reclaim some control over your situation and make you feel better about your unplanned pregnancy. Here, we’ll talk about how to put a child up for adoption when you’re six months pregnant and what resources will be available along the way.

But before we talk about placing your baby for adoption in Colorado, let us introduce ourselves.

If you’re considering private adoption in ColoradoAdoption Choices of Colorado may be for you. Adoption Choices of Colorado wants to help you create your adoption plan. We specialize in caring for birth mothers and informing and working with them as they work their way through the adoption process. So, if you are considering adoption for your child, give us a call, and we’ll help you get started on your adoption plan.

Now, let’s talk about placing your baby for adoption at six months pregnant.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Can I put a child up for adoption at 6 Months Pregnant?

Yes! Or, at least, you can get started on the process. Beginning the adoption process early on can help you destress because it lets you see the end of the road. You will work on your adoption plan and choose what you want life for you and your birth child to look like after your baby is born.

What Resources Are Available to Me Throughout the Adoption Process?

At the start of your adoption process, we will assign an adoption professional to help you with your adoption plan. You will also have access to many of our other services, including legal and financial assistance. Our Adoption Choices of Colorado staff wants to ensure your adoption process goes smoothly. They want to help you in any way they can.

What Is the Colorado Adoption Intake Process at 6 Months Pregnant?

The adoption intake process occurs when you schedule a phone in-person meeting with us. At this meeting, we’ll ask you to fill out some paperwork, including medical history documents, and make some choices regarding your adoption plan, including your preferred level of openness and type of adoptive family. We will also ask you o sign some forms which will allow us to obtain the proper medical records.

Choosing a Type of Adoption at Your Adoption Agency in Denver

When filling out your adoption plan, you must decide what level of openness you prefer in your adoption, open, semi-open, or closed. Each type refers to the amount of communication you want to have with your birth child and their adoptive family after the adoption finalizes. An open adoption allows for direct contact between you and the adoptive family. With open adoption, you will work together to determine boundaries and times when you can see your birth child. In a semi-open adoption, all communication with the adoptive family occurs through your Colorado adoption agency. In a closed adoption, you have no contact with your birth child or their adoptive family. You will have total anonymity.

Matching With an Adoptive Family Through Your Colorado Adoption Agency

While filling out your adoption plan, you decide what kind of family you would like to adopt your child. Some birth mothers prefer a family with a certain cultural background, lifestyle, or religion. Others consider parenting styles or whether the family in question already has kids. If you choose an open adoption, you can look through the adoptive family profiles on our website and select the one you think would be a good fit. 

Finalizing Your Adoption Papers in Colorado

After you give birth to your child, you will have to wait two days before you can sign the final adoption papers. But, afterward, the adoption is complete, and your birth child can go home with their adoptive family.

What Will My Life Look Like After the Adoption Process?

After the adoption process, some birth mothers experience some grief. However, Adoption Choices of Colorado provides services even after your adoption finalizes. We offer counseling and support groups for all birth parents, so you can find solace and growth in talking to people who have experienced the same things you have.

Remember: adoption is generous. You are not “giving your baby up” for adoption at birth. You are placing them for adoption. There is no “giving up” involved. Creating an adoption plan takes a lot of thought. You want to make the best choices for your birth child.

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

How to Plan an Adoption From the Hospital in Colorado?

How to Plan an Adoption From the Hospital in Colorado?

By Xihan Sun

It can be scary for you if you suddenly discover your unplanned pregnancy because you are facing difficult choices. While you want to raise your child, your situation and resources may not be suitable for a child. Placing your baby for adoption is always a viable option if you are not ready or able to parent. Even if you are not sure about which option you should choose, that is okay. We understand that this is not an easy decision, and you should take all the time you need. However, you do not need to rush your decision before delivering your child. It is even possible to plan an adoption from the hospital or even after your pregnancy. Adoption Choices of Colorado has solid experience in helping birth mothers in Colorado with their adoption. We are here to show you how to put a child up for adoption from the hospital in Colorado.

The Process of Last-Minute Adoption in Colorado

You are hesitating about whether you want to raise the child or not. What should you do? This situation is much more common than you think, and you should not worry about this. If you decide that you do not want to raise your child, you can always start your adoption plan. If you are awaiting delivery in a hospital, you can contact a local agency to start your adoption. There are many adoption agencies in Denver and other places in Colorado ready to assist you. An agency like Adoption Choices of Colorado will provide assistance to make your adoption a better experience. You can get in touch with us through email or phone call, and you can find more information on our website. Here are some steps you need to complete after connecting with Adoption Choices of Colorado.

1. Start Working on Your Adoption Plan With Your Counselor

You will get a counselor after you select Adoption Choices of Colorado to assist you. Your counselor will be responsible for answering your questions and helping you overcome any difficulties throughout your pregnancy. Your adoption plan is the essential guide for your adoption. It will include the benefits you receive during your adoption as well as several steps you need to accomplish. Your counselor will provide advice and references for you when making an adoption plan. Your adoption plan will make sure you receive customized adoption assistance.

2. Choose the Type of Adoption That is Best For You

There are three types of adoption: closed adoption, semi-closed adoption, and open adoption. These terms represent different levels of contact you want with your child and the adoptive parents. Every adoption is different, and there is no right answer when choosing the type of adoption. You should choose the type that is right for your situation. You may consider if you want to receive updates on your child or participate in family events in the future. Your counselor will explain the differences between these terms and the pros & cons of each one. 

3. Selecting an Adoptive Family For Your Child

It is likely that you choose adoption because you want another family to provide your child with a better life. In other words, one of the most crucial decisions you will make is the family that adopts your child. You should consider different factors when making the decision, such as housing situation, financial background, education, race, religion, etc. Adoption Choices of Colorado presents you with the strongest candidates through careful screening and interviews. We will make sure that the candidate you choose meets your standard and preference. 

4. Securing Your Medical Resources and Other Benefits

As a birth mother choosing adoption in Colorado, you will receive various benefits. Besides medical resources, you can also receive housing accommodation, financial support, etc. There are more details on the Adoption Choices of Colorado website. Our main goal is for your pregnancy to be easier and to take pressure off your shoulder. 

You Can Consult With Us About How to Put a Child Up For Adoption in Colorado

Private adoption in Colorado is a popular choice for local birth mothers as it provides them with choices and initiatives. Most birth mothers in Colorado choose to conduct their adoption plans with private adoption agencies. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a professional adoption agency that helps birth mothers give babies up for adoption at birth. We have offices in Colorado, and we can also come to you if necessary. Adoption Choices of Colorado understands that birth mothers’ needs come first, and we are ready to help at any time. Make sure to contact us whenever you need, and we will begin to help you as soon as possible. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

5 Facts of Choosing Adoption in Colorado and Their Benefits

5 Facts of Choosing Adoption in Colorado and Their Benefits

By Bruce Kong

Facing an unplanned pregnancy can be the scariest thing to face. You’re confronted with negative feelings of anxiety, helplessness, and sorrow. It feels like a trap that makes it impossible for you to escape. And when the baby is born, there is a financial burden on the birth mother, which is overwhelming and stressful. 

But as someone Pregnant and considering adoption, you have access to resources that will guide you down a path to find a solution for you and your baby. Fortunately, a Colorado Adoption may be just the thing for you. 

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we’re not another agency looking to gain more money. Adoption is beautiful, and the birth mothers we work with are a valuable part of our organization. 

With the new year around the corner, we’ve put together a list of facts about Colorado Adoption and the benefits that come with putting your child up for adoption. And whether it be a Denver Adoption Agency or somewhere else in Colorado, these facts and benefits apply to any agency. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

1. Financial and Medicinal Assistance for Birth Mothers

Finance is a sensitive topic for everyone, and when someone asks you how you are doing financially, the hairs on your back immediately stick up, and suddenly you feel this pressure on your shoulders. When you partner with Adoption Choices of Colorado, we will provide financial assistance that covers the small details, including medical care, living expenses during the adoption process, and insurance. All mothers want their children to grow up in a family without financial burdens.

2. Instability of Relationships

Family structure needs to be considered when a birth mother decides to adopt. If they are confronted with an unstable situation, then things can get stressful for the birth mother, which can affect the development of the child. We’re not saying that a single parent is incapable of raising a child on their own: but that the confidence behind the birth mother’s ability to raise a child may result differently. Placing a child up for adoption ensures that they will grow up in a stable and loving family. 

3. Imperfect Timing

Age does not determine a birth mother’s ability to raise a child. It’s just a number that society has placed on people to define their maturity levels. If you feel that raising a child as a single mother is not right for you, then that is perfectly fine. Choosing to place their child for adoption gives birth mothers the feeling of control. It could be because the birth mother is too young and feels that they cannot handle the stress of taking care of a child. Or if the birth mother is older and does not have the time to raise the child. The reason is different for each birth mother in the Adoption Process

4. Aiming for a Better Future

Every parent wants the best for their child, and when they feel that the adopting family will provide more support emotional and financial, the birth mother will see to it that her child is placed in their care. Birth mothers also want to see their children grow up to have a chance at opportunities that they have never had the chance to aim for. The child will gain access to multiple resources that will increase their chances for a better education and a brighter future. 

5. Extending Family Through Adoption

By choosing adoption, you are helping by giving couples a chance at starting their own families. Infertility is common amongst most couples, which is an unfortunate case for those wanting to start a family. Adoption offers them a chance to create the family of their dreams and provides a new start for the adoptee. But some couples may have biological children of their own and are looking to expand their family! 

The Choice of Adoption is Yours

Admitting that you are not ready to take care of a baby is already a bold step that you’ve taken. As the birth mother, you have a voice to speak out about how you want your child’s future to turn out, and while most will come to condemn you for adoption, they will never understand the pain and suffering you have experienced. Choosing to place your child up for adoption is a tough choice, and it requires a heavy amount of research and reflection to decide what is best for your child. 

Remember that you are never alone and that we will be here to help you every step of the way. Your burdens are our burdens, and we will share them in your journey. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Transracial adoption: Issues that may arise and tips to overcome them

Transracial adoption issues that may arise and tips to overcome them

By Jan Douglas

If you are a pregnant woman thinking about adoption and are seeking information on transracial adoption, Adoption Choices of Colorado has been helping women since 2002. We are a private adoption agency in Colorado with locations across Colorado, including an adoption agency near Denver. Making a choice to place your baby for adoption is not easy. We understand what a birth mother goes through when making this decision. Yet, there is a beautiful side to the adoption process.

Transracial adoption is when a birth parent chooses to place their baby in a home with parents of a different race or ethnic group than the baby. Multicultural families are more common nowadays than in the past. Thanks to technology, individuals can meet others living thousands of miles away in today’s connected world. According to the Census Bureau, there is an increase in intercultural marriages in the United States. A birth mother choosing a family of a different race or ethnic group than the unborn baby is not uncommon as it was once. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Qualities a birth mother may want to consider when selecting an Adoptive Family

There are many characteristics to think about when deciding on an adoptive family. What is important to one person may not be to another. Religion or spirituality may be essential to you. What comes to mind when you envision the life of your unborn baby? Is the sexual orientation of the marriage partners vital to you? Are there specific personality attributes you would like the adoptive parents to have? What about the age of the parents? Would you prefer a younger couple or an older couple? Even hobbies, interests, and job history may be details to consider. The birth mother makes these decisions. If you need help learning how to put your child up for adoption, one of our adoption counselors can meet with you and discuss the adoption process, including choosing the adoptive family. In addition to all of these elements, the racial or ethnic make-up of the family can be in the birth mom’s decision. Part of the adoption plan includes choosing the adoptive family. Specifying a transracial family is an option some birth parents make. 

Issues that may arise when choosing a Transracial Adoption

There are many beautiful things about a transracial family:

  • growing up in a home with more than one culture 
  • an appreciation for different customs and traditions
  • being exposed to diversity from birth

However, there are also challenges to consider with this type of adoption. Specific race differences can bring a unique set of difficulties. White parents adopting black children will need to begin the discussion of prejudice at an early age. Unfortunately, even preschoolers experience discrimination. The adoptive parents using simple language can talk about racism, and as the child matures, so too can the language.  What school to send your children to is also an aspect to consider. Kids spend a large amount of their growing-up years in school. If the child is of a different race than the parents, exposure to others like them is important. Sending them to a school where the kids are of a similar race or ethnic background may help. They will have others like them to identify with.  Striving to be authentic in your home can be a challenge too. There needs to be an awareness of what a child of a transracial family may go through out in the world. Adoptive parents must be watchful of any hidden prejudices in their upbringing. And make sure their child understands any harmful experiences encountered because of their race or ethnicity are NOT their fault. Any negative talk by others because the child is of a different race than their parents can be damaging. No matter what the racial differences are. 

Steps involved in reviewing potential Adoptive Families

Adoption Choices of Colorado carefully screens all potential parents. Our trained caseworkers will interview all family members in the home. Additionally, they will undergo a background check. Further steps will require the prospective parents to provide a child abuse clearance report and a State Bureau of Investigation report. They will also need to furnish copies of their marriage license, physician’s report, including HIV test results, and other medical records. There are many safeguards established for the acceptance of adoptive families.  How does the matching process work for putting a child up for adoption? There are five steps in the adoption process:

  • Contact one of our Colorado Adoption agencies
  • Discuss your option with one of our trained adoption counselors
  • Choose an adoptive family
  • Create a customized adoption plan
  • Receive post-placement support

Choosing adoption does not have to be an individual journey

The reasons a birth mother might choose adoption are various – unplanned pregnancy, her age, financial situation, and so on. No matter the reason, it is crucial for the birth mom to understand she is not alone. Nor is she the first woman to decide on adoption. While adoption may present particular challenges, it can also be a beautiful beginning. Adoption language has changed over the last several decades. The phrase “giving up a baby for adoption at birth” is no longer standard terminology. Here are some examples of positive adoption language vs. negative. Place my child vs. give up child, birth parent vs. real parent, unplanned pregnancy vs. unwanted pregnancy, and many more. 

Adoption Choices of Colorado has been helping women for over twenty years. We provide caring and loving adoption counselors who can help you through the adoption journey. There is no judgment. If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Transracial Adoption Terms: Are They All the Same?

Transracial Adoption Terms: Are They All the Same?

By Jan Douglas

Adoption Choices of Colorado is an excellent resource if you are pregnant and considering adoption. We are accessible round the clock. One of our adoption counselors can meet with you at one of our locations. We can also get together at a private or public spot. If you prefer to talk on the phone, our number is 303-670-4673 (HOPE). You can submit a contact request here if you prefer. The bottom line is we are here for any expectant woman. 

Adoptions have significantly changed over the last couple of decades. The birth mother makes all the decisions in the adoption process. She will decide the type of adoption – open adoption, semi-open, or closed. Our adoption agency carefully screens hopeful families. The birth parent will have the opportunity to review several families until she finds one perfect. Choosing adoption may feel like you are taking the easy way out. That could not be further from the truth! The reason a woman contemplates adoption is unique. Choosing to place your baby for adoption in a wonderful and loving family takes courage. It can be a new beginning for you and your unborn baby. Although you may feel discouraged, the sun will shine again.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Transracial Adoption Terms and the Types of Adoptions in Colorado

There are many types of adoptions in Colorado. As a nation, we are celebrating Black History Month right now. You may have heard terms such as transracial, multiracial, transcultural, and interracial adoption. All these terms mean exactly the same thing. This type of adoption simply means you are placing the baby with a family of a different race or ethnic group. There are many advantages to interracial adoption. Some of them include the following:

  • The adopted child will grow up in a culturally diverse home 
  • Adoptive parents who choose a transracial adoption may be independent and strong-minded
  • Often transcultural homes are broad-minded, caring, and accepting 

Reasons Why a Birth Mother may Choose a Transracial Adoption

Women choose adoption for various reasons – financial reasons, teenage pregnancy, unplanned pregnancy, or possibly emotional reasons. Once a birth mom decides on adoption, part of creating an adoption plan is selecting the adoptive family. A transracial family may be one of the best options. Growing up in a home with different cultures often creates open-mindedness. Various ethnic or national cultures make up a multicultural home. It tends to have an environment of tolerance and creativity – a blend of different customs, traditions, and heritage. 

A birth mother may desire a transracial adoption if the unborn baby is biracial. She may feel that the child will fit in or be more comfortable with a multiracial family. Transracial adoptions may also bring awareness to the child at a young age of racial or ethnic differences. The child may grow up a more accepting person. Usually, people are afraid or tentative about anyone different because they have not been around people unlike themselves. A person raised in a transracial family may appreciate all the varieties of persons in the world. Having this worldview can open doors to a beautiful and interesting life! 

Advantages of Choosing Adoption

Modern adoptions have changed immensely from adoptions in the past. The majority of adoption plans these days are open or semi-open adoptions. In these adoptions, the birth mother decides how much involvement the adoptive family will have in the adoption process. And the level of relationship she will have in the child’s life. There is a great amount of flexibility in today’s adoptions. Some birth mothers might want an open adoption in which the adoptive parents come to the doctor’s appointments and are even present at the birth. Others choose to limit the amount of communication to updates throughout the child’s life until they turn eighteen. And even this has adaptability. 

There are wonderful families out there that desperately want children. Some have tried to have kids and experience miscarriage after miscarriage. Others have never been able to get pregnant. When a birth mother chooses adoption, she grants a couple the fulfillment of a deep and persistent longing. Adoptive parents are deciding to adopt. They have gone through a rigorous screening process. They may have been waiting several years. You are helping to create a new family. 

Depending on the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy, a birth mother may be gifting herself and her child a better life. She may be young, financially unstable, or just not ready to commit to raising a child. Children require more than love – a stable home, basic necessities, and time. And then, there are secondary needs such as extracurricular activities, college or technical school, and vacations. Adoption can provide peace of mind to a birth mother. When a person takes control of their life, it can be empowering. Our private adoption agency will guide and support you.

Where can a birth mother find help and support when considering adoption?

If you have an unplanned pregnancy in Colorado, you have three options: have the baby, terminate the pregnancy, or adoption. Adoption gives you another way if you feel uncomfortable terminating your pregnancy. Or you are not ready to raise a child. You do not need to apologize for whatever decision you make. Most adopted children today grow up in families where they feel adoption is unique. And the majority of these children have good feelings about their circumstances. 

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

What to Look for in an Adoptive Family

What to Look for in an Adoptive Family

By Edward Harding

Choosing the right adoptive family can be difficult in the adoption process. The number of options to consider can be overwhelming. You might need clarification on what key aspects to consider when choosing the right adoptive family and home for your child. That is one of the many ways our adoption specialists can help!

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we want you to feel confident in your final decisions. Having little to no regrets can help you better deal with the feeling of loss from giving up a baby for adoption. We have collected a list of some of the most important criteria for choosing an adoptive family. Hopefully, this can help you sort through our waiting families and narrow down the right adoptive family for your child.

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Consider the type of Adoption You Want

The first thing that you’ll want to look for in an adoptive family is just what kind of adoption you are both searching for. Think about what relationship, if any, you would like to have with your child or the adoptive family post-placement.

  • Open Adoption – This is the most open level of adoption there is. Here you are able to receive regular updates from the adoptive family about how your baby is developing. You will even be able to schedule visits with your child. All of this will be discussed before adoption finalization.
  • Semi-open adoption – This is considered a middle ground. Relationships remain somewhat structured, and interaction is mostly infrequent but possible. Most communication between the birth parents and the adoptive family is done via a third party. In most cases, this would be the adoption agency.
  • Closed Adoption- With a closed adoption, strict rules apply. There is no communication or updates between you and the adoptive family. The only information that they would receive about you is your medical history.

Next, compare your needs with those of the waiting families and choose accordingly based on your common desires. Making your first criteria quite specific will instantly help to cut down options and save time.

Important Factors for Colorado Adoption     

If you’re pregnant and considering choosing adoption in Colorado, these are some other important considerations.

  • Location- Do you want the family to live within your state? Is Interstate an option? Also, reflect upon whether an urban, suburban, or rural home life would be appropriate.
  • Family composition- Would you be opposed to families that have other children, either adopted or biological?
  • Diversity and culture- Ask yourself if you would be open to choosing a family that may not share your race, ethnicity, or sexuality.
  • Religion- If you are a strong practitioner of a religious ideology, it may be important that your child be raised within a particular denomination. Alternatively, you might not consider religion to be important. Maybe you would not wish your child to be a part of a religious household. Finally, you might find you have no preference either way and would be open to any active or inactive religious practice within adoptive families.
  • Profession- Some adoptive families have careers that may drastically change home life. For example, being part of the military or certain business fields may require constant relocation. Additionally, if both parents have jobs, this may limit the amount of time spent with the child.
  • Morals or Ideals- By far the most complex and difficult to define. Nonetheless, this is still worth pondering. Think about how you were raised. What kinds of things did you like and dislike about your own family’s parenting style? Perhaps there are important lessons you would like to pass on to your child. Look for common threads among your family profiles.

Match with the Adoptive Family That Feels Right  

 Adoption Choices of Colorado evaluates each family beforehand through the use of a home study and vouches for the suitability of every candidate. We believe in full transparency with all our clients. Adoption Colorado conducts extensive background checks and interviews to ensure the validity of the information. Don’t ever feel nervous about requesting additional information about any of your matching families. Remember, this is your adoption planPlacing your baby for adoption does not mean you immediately give up all control.

Even after spending time deliberating over profiles, sometimes the best thing you can do is to meet face to face. Although home studies are quite thorough, there is a limit to what you can gain from a collection of files. Birth mothers who choose adoption in Colorado often reference a “gut feeling” developed after communicating with their future adoptive family. If you are interested in open adoption. We encourage you to meet directly with as many families as possible. It often provides the final stimulus needed for many birth mothers to hone in on a final choice.

Now that you understand more about the matching process, combat your unplanned pregnancy by constructing a list of personal criteria. It’s always a good idea to be prepared even before your initial meeting with a counselor. If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

Which is the Right Adoptive Family for Me?

Which is the Right Adoptive Family for Me?

By Edward Harding

If you are pregnant and considering adoption, chances are you’ll be wondering how to best find the adoptive family for your child. Fortunately, It’s never been a better time to choose Adoption in Colorado. We are a judgment-free, private adoption agency licensed in Colorado. We understand that placing a baby for adoption can be hard. You may even be wrestling with strong feelings of guilt or anxiety surrounding where your child will end up. These are certainly valid concerns. Every parent wants the best for their child.         

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we believe that the best way to combat these feelings is through education and shared experience. We’ve served hundreds of birth mothers across the state and have gathered some testimonies from them to aid your decision. 

If you need adoption help now, please call or text us at 303-670-4673 (HOPE) or visit us at Adoption Choices of Colorado.

Adoptive Families Hoping to Adopt in Colorado   

The world is a diverse place. Therefore, there are many potential families that you may consider as a candidate to raise your child. First, consider what kind of home environment you wish them to have. Is diversity important to you? What about potential siblings? Would you like your child to have fellow children to interact with? These are just some of the many questions you should consider when considering narrowing the pool of applicants and profiles. 

Here are some of the most common types of families that various adoption agencies typically accept.   

  • Traditional family- Mother\ Father  
  • Transracial family
  • Transcultural family
  • LGBTQ+ family 
  • Multiracial family
  • Military family
  • Single Parent                 

How to Find a Match During the Adoption Process

The matching process begins after you construct an adoption plan with a professional. This will outline your specific desires for potential families. Potential families will also have constructed a plan during the home study process. Home studies are collaborative informational sessions conducted by the agency. The adoptive family will share their reasons for seeking adoption and their preferences while providing information about themselves to the agency. This information will then be collected into a profile of the waiting family. After comparing your own preferences to potential applicants, your professional will then deduce suitable applicants for your deliberation. 

Once you’ve been presented with profiles, it’s up to you whether you would like to move forward. Don’t feel pressured to choose any of the options. You may find that you would like to wait for another potential applicant that better aligns with your needs. Alternatively, you can also choose multiple families to match with and learn more about each before making a final decision. You may even find a family more appealing after meeting with them face to face. 

However, you may also choose strictly to decide based on profiles alone. Once you choose a family to match, your own profile will be exchanged with them, and they will be informed of your decision.   

How can Open Adoption make my decision easier?   

Adoption Choices of Colorado encourages open adoption between birth mothers and adoptive parents. This type of adoption allows for as much contact between both parties as possible. You can meet the family and stay in contact with your child and parents after placement. Open adoption allows you to still remain a part of your child’s life even after relinquishing care. Additionally, it helps you build personal trust in your chosen adoptive family. 

The extent of open adoption is usually mutually agreed upon by all parties involved. The adoptive agency does not enforce the criteria. However, if you would like to guarantee continued contact, the state of Colorado can issue a Post Placement Contact Agreement. This ensures continued contact under penalty of law.                          

How do birth mothers feel about choosing adoption in Colorado? 

If you still have reservations about choosing Adoption Colorado, then listen to some of the testimonies from birth mothers who have worked with our Kansas branch. Birth mother, Jessica, commented on her decision to choose an openly gay couple as her adoptive family. She enjoyed allowing them to be parents. Without adoption, they would never have that chance. Seeing others happy allowed her to better process the grief associated with adoption. 

Birth mother, Amber, echoed this opinion. Her adoptive family had difficulty conceiving children of their own. However, through adoption, Amber alleviated this pain while providing a happy life for her son. Amber also stressed the importance of thinking about your decision thoroughly beforehand. “Make sure you’re comfortable with it. That way, you don’t have any regrets in the end. You’ll know that you did the right thing, and it kind of just feels right in your heart.”

This isn’t to say that your journey won’t be difficult. Birth mother, Cassie, discussed many of the internal struggles she still deals with in her day-to-day life. For example, despite knowing that she made the right choice, it still causes her pain that she is not able to provide for her sons.               

Hopefully, learning about the journeys of others helped you to feel more confident in your own decisions. Adoption Choices of Colorado believes that openness for all parties is key to making the adoption process as painless as possible. Therefore, we offer post-placement counseling services to all birth mothers at any stage of the adoption process. These programs can help you to deal with internal grief if desired by sharing experiences with others.         

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and want to learn more about your adoption options, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado by email, phone, or text: Email Us, Text us: 720-371-1099, Call us: 303-670-4673 (HOPE). If you are hoping to adopt, please contact us here.

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